Assalamualaikum and a very good morning to the judges and my fellow friends. Today I’m going to give a short speech
on “How to Improve Family Communication”.
As
family members learn to communicate more effectively within the home, they
develop valuable skills that help them communicate more effectively outside the
home. For improving communication within your family, you should
listen to understand. An important way to express love and
respect for other family members is to listen carefully to them. Listening to
what people are feeling as well as what they are saying takes concentration and
effort. Furthermore, talk so others can understand. Communicating well requires
not only good listening skills but also effective speaking skills. People who
learn to express themselves effectively can keep communication open by reducing
the chance for arguments, bad feelings, or boredom. Moreover, parents must use
labels that show love to their child.
Young children tend to believe what
their parents tell them. Often parents seemingly insignificant words can have a
great impact on their children, either positively or negatively. In addition,
remember to attack the problem, not the child
When children make mistakes, parents
should be careful to address the mistake, not condemn the child. Parents can
talk with their children about unacceptable behavior without making the
children feel they are bad. It is better to say that a child has behaved in an
unacceptable way than to say that the child is bad. Besides, we must always be trustworthy and maintain confidence. Trust
is an essential ingredient in every relationship. Accordingly, it also plays an
important part in family communication. Trust your family and inspire trust
from your family. Keep your promises, always be true to them. Maintain
confidences, this encourages trust and commitment between you and your family.
Other than that, always find and make quality time for our family. It is necessary for every family to find and
make quality family time. Such light hearted moments help the family to enjoy
each other's company and can pave the way to easy communication and sharing of
jokes, to exchanging funny events of the day. Last but not least, look after
your tone while communicating. It has been said that one should tame the tongue
to avoid uttering hurtful or sinister words. In the same way kind words, and
sweet and thoughtful tones are always heartfelt and can uplift the soul.
I think that's
all from me. I'm apologize if I have many mistake in my speech. Thank you.
4 ulasan:
Assalamualaikum...
Dik.... ini speech adik ke ni???...
ok le tu..... follow jugak ye dik
nice sharing la dik..sebagai ibu bapa apa yang paling penting sentiasa menjadi sahabat baik pada anak anak.. :)
D_08, tq..
perdu cinta, stuju sgt 2.. comunikasi yang baik dapat mmprbaiki hubungan antara ahli d dlm keluarga..
kak lea pun,sebagai mama kepada sepasang kembar boy n girl,dan sorang lagi anak bongsu boy jugak..kak lea memang rajin berkomunikasi dengan diorang sebagai salah satu cara untuk tau apa diorang suka dan tidak.
kak lea ni jenis sporting,kelakar dan suka buat macam2 aktiviti dengan diorang.jadi hubungan tu bukan setakat sebagai mama,tapi boleh juga sebagai kawan.kalau balik je sekolah ada jelah benda yang nak diceritanya.
memang penting kita mendengar terlebih dulu apa yang diluahkan anak2.kesibukan bekerja bukan penghalang untuk rapat dengan anak2 :)
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